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Post by Psychotropic Snake on Jun 2, 2018 13:07:55 GMT -5
Going through hell and not knowing whether there's really a way out
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Post by siner on Jun 6, 2018 6:06:27 GMT -5
Honestly been there for the past three years between in laws fucking us over massively, destroyed friendships, living in serious poverty in slum like accommodation, forever altered family circumstances it's been hell. without sounding patronising something's do change with time, everything doesn't get better, how you feel about yourself/circumstances may never be the same and that you can be a drastically altered person coming out the other end but you can come out of it.
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Post by Psychotropic Snake on Jun 8, 2018 13:20:53 GMT -5
Honestly been there for the past three years between in laws fucking us over massively, destroyed friendships, living in serious poverty in slum like accommodation, forever altered family circumstances it's been hell. without sounding patronising something's do change with time, everything doesn't get better, how you feel about yourself/circumstances may never be the same and that you can be a drastically altered person coming out the other end but you can come out of it. I really want to believe. Thanks a lot for your words, it really means something to me. None of my friends nor my relatives are really interested in what I'm going through, so this is especially touching. I wish you all the best with your personal circumstances.
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Post by siner on Jun 9, 2018 3:06:28 GMT -5
I'm out the other end of it now and similar circumstances with friends and family. I learned one thing you can only rely on yourself and I don't mean that in a bitter kind of way. You will become more self reliant and learn to start putting yourself and what you want first and that's how you change I think. People always mention seeking help from others and ventilating how you feel so it's frustrating when you try to and people don't listen, the first time I met a close friend he spent the whole time talking about how my crisis affected him. I learned hard and fast that people are never what you hope them to be but that's ok. You can get more comfortable with yourself and your limitations and for next that was a major part of getting through. I'm always here for a vent if you want it's easier to talk to a stranger
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Post by Psychotropic Snake on Aug 26, 2018 12:23:26 GMT -5
I'm out the other end of it now and similar circumstances with friends and family. I learned one thing you can only rely on yourself and I don't mean that in a bitter kind of way. You will become more self reliant and learn to start putting yourself and what you want first and that's how you change I think. People always mention seeking help from others and ventilating how you feel so it's frustrating when you try to and people don't listen, the first time I met a close friend he spent the whole time talking about how my crisis affected him. I learned hard and fast that people are never what you hope them to be but that's ok. You can get more comfortable with yourself and your limitations and for next that was a major part of getting through. I'm always here for a vent if you want it's easier to talk to a stranger Somehow I managed to miss this post. Wow. I must say agree with pretty much everything you wrote. Thanks a lot! And yes, I agree, talking to strangers can often be easier and less of a hassle. Right now, I'm doing somewhat better, though mood goes up, mood goes down. Again, thanks!
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Post by mickyjesus on Oct 21, 2018 9:17:53 GMT -5
Recovering from having 2 hernia's done(umbilical/epigastric) last week. Tell you the truth the pain is not as bad as I thought is was going to be, but I'm still fucked!! At the moment I'm trippin on a mixture of paracetamol, ibuprofen, marijuana, tramadol and morphine. Hope everyone's ok!
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Post by mickyjesus on Dec 20, 2018 9:32:22 GMT -5
Sweating me tits off in Noosa!!
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Post by mickyjesus on May 1, 2020 17:18:28 GMT -5
Iamgoingtocelebratemydayoffwithjackdanielscoke(notcoke)hottubandamarklanathondaytomorrowandagoodbook!
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Post by ken on May 4, 2020 5:47:55 GMT -5
Iamgoingtocelebratemydayoffwithjackdanielscoke(notcoke)hottubandamarklanathondaytomorrowandagoodbook! Is your space bar broken?
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Post by mickyjesus on May 4, 2020 13:12:14 GMT -5
Nokenmyspacebarisworkingfinewhydoyouask?
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Post by ken on May 5, 2020 11:05:18 GMT -5
Can'tthinkofagoodreasonmustbethislockdownthinggettingtome.
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Post by mickyjesus on May 5, 2020 16:52:01 GMT -5
Sorry my space bar wasn't working, stay safe Ken hopefully lockdown shouldn't be for much longer!
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Post by ken on May 7, 2020 4:30:08 GMT -5
Cheers - you too. Hopefully, Boris is going to release us this weekend!
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Post by siner on May 7, 2020 4:58:19 GMT -5
I'm sunburnt ta fuck and waddling around in my flipflops. I was doing COVID screening all day yesterday and it turns out that PPE is not a good barrier for the sun.
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Post by mickyjesus on May 7, 2020 17:46:48 GMT -5
Started my shift at 11am and won't finish till Friday 5pm. Then I will be sponsored by 2× bottles of Yellow Tail Melbec and 1 bottle of Jack Daniels
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Post by siner on May 13, 2020 14:30:54 GMT -5
My poor dad had a stroke over the weekend and is sitting totally lost in his mind in a hospital bed with little to no meaningful human contact. I'm terrified for him and he gets no comfort from my three daily phonecalls, he asked me to sneak him out on Monday and my whole body hurts
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Post by mickyjesus on May 13, 2020 16:51:10 GMT -5
Oh man that's fookin terrible terrible news! Don't know what to say . (Try to) Stay strong for you and your dad.
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Post by siner on May 14, 2020 13:13:21 GMT -5
Oh man that's fookin terrible terrible news! Don't know what to say . (Try to) Stay strong for you and your dad. Awh thanks. If I could go see him and just sit by his bed it would be some comfort for the pair of us but with covid he's kinda stuck. No transfers to more appropriate settings that might ease him. He wouldn't survive catching covid, the fear is wearing us and him down
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Post by spirou13 on May 14, 2020 13:49:08 GMT -5
Oh man that's fookin terrible terrible news! Don't know what to say . (Try to) Stay strong for you and your dad. Awh thanks. If I could go see him and just sit by his bed it would be some comfort for the pair of us but with covid he's kinda stuck. No transfers to more appropriate settings that might ease him. He wouldn't survive catching covid, the fear is wearing us and him down Lockdown will certainly be lifted in a few days (or in a week or two?) if you live in Europe . Some countries have already lifted the lockdown. Meanwhile, phonecalls can help your father. He knows that you're thinking of him. It's very important... Stay strong. I don't know you but my thoughts are with both of you.
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Post by mickyjesus on Jun 22, 2020 14:26:10 GMT -5
ImgettingpissedcozITSMYBIRTHDAYstaysafepeoples
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